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11/19/01
I think
you site is one of the most, well cold hard truthful site. I am just 15 and
with a baby
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is a year old. I thought of an abortion till I saw your site, it brought
tears to my eyes. I cant see how someone can do that. And to think that
these women 9 times out of 10 carry on with their normal daily activities.
And I think of what the president thinks is terrorism. And all I think is
that terrorism is what the abortionists do, and how cold hearted they are.
And then how cold hearted the women are. They don't deserve the title of
being called a WOMAN! They are the terrorist along with the abortionist.
Here is a picture of the baby i would have aborted if it wasn't for your
site. His name is Jacen Robert Rainbolt. He was 4 1/2 weeks premature, he
weighed a healthy 5 pounds 8 ounces, 18 1/4 inches long. Now he a very
active one year old little boy, who now weighs in at 26 pounds and almost 3
feet tall.
p.s you can tell im pro-life! and very proud of it!
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11/14/01
I have never been sure
whether I was Pro-Life or Pro-Choice. A part of me
thinks that a woman should have the right to do what she wants with her
body, after all, it IS hers. But another part of me says "but this is a
life"...a tiny life which will never be able to tell you whether he/she
wants to live or die. A tiny life who's never
made a decision - and to take
the life away from something so innocent...is absolutely heartwrenching. I
was married when I turned 18. 2 weeks after my marriage, I found out I was
pregnant. I was absolutely devastated. I was so young-and I still wanted
to finish college and enjoy my first years of marriage before having a
baby. I considered abortion. But my husband, who is VERY Pro Life, voted
against me. He wanted a say in what would happen to his baby. After weeks
 of
consideration-I decided not to have an abortion. Although I was not
satisfied with my decision, I felt I had to deal with the responsibility. I
spent so many nights crying - knowing I would not be ready for such a
change in my life. But I held strong. God blessed me with a beautiful baby
boy on the morning of December 29, 2000. He came into the world weighing
7lbs 7oz, 20 3/4 in. long. We named him Payton Kongchia Lee. As soon as I
heard him cry, my heart filled with emotion. My husband and I could not
hold back our tears. I looked at my husband's face. He was sobbing. He was
so unbelievebly overcome with joy - and then my eyes filled up with tears.
This time, these were tears of joy. And the feeling was very different.
No one, and I repeat, No One will EVER be ready for parenthood - for a
child. It changes your whole life. It changes you and the way you think and
live. But it is absolutely amazing. The love I have for that baby is
unbeleivable. He is SO PRECIOUS to my husband and I. I was so sure on
December 29, 2000 at 10:25am that I was Pro-Life.
PL |
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11/8/01
Hello, I have looked at your site a
few times now and overtime I even think of looking at it I just start to
cry. As I am right now, because I was 15 when I became pregnant, I was
pro-choice, and I was because I did not understand fully what they did to
the , (ok I refuse to call it a fetus it is a life, a baby. When you say
fetus some people think of it as not living, BUT IT IS!!!) that little life.
When I came on here I was 32 weeks pregnant, a VERY PROUD 32 weeks pregnant.
I was so ashamed of what people though of abortion, abortion is MURDER no
matter what way you try to justify it, it is murder. I am NOT pro-choice I
am very pro-life. When I announced that I was pregnant, my family was very
upset and of course tried to get
 me
to have an abortion. I couldn't believe that my family wanted me to murder,
I mean aren't your family members, your parents aren't they the ones that
are to teach you right from wrong. And now they are saying that it is ok to
murder???? I knew though that I was not going to kill my child, not for
ANYBODY, I made this child this child lives off of me. I treasured every
kick every hiccup, and now I treasure every smile every laugh of my
beautiful 4 month old baby girl! I am now 17. I pray that those out there
that do not think it's a big deal to have an abortion, or that the fetus
isn't really alive, that they NEVER i mean NEVER get that chance to
experience the such wonderful joy of carrying a child and then raising it. I
could go on and on, but it hurts so much, as i said in the beginning i
cannot stop crying over this, every tear i shed is for a child that has been
murdered by there own so called mother. those people do not deserve the
title of mother!! ever since the first time i came to this site, and
everyday after i have prayed to all those beautiful life's that were lost
and told them that I loved them and that they are always treasured by me.
Those people did not deserve them, but when the time comes they will be born
to someone that will love them and cherish them like they deserve to be!
Thank you for taking the time to make this site, i hope before someone takes
a life that they find this site, and think VERY carefully about what they
are doing it for and who they are doing it for. sex is not just for fun, God
didn't just put it there for that, it is to give life and what right do we
have to take it away before it even has a chance?
Here is a picture of my beautiful daughter, and thank you for taking the
time to read this, I hope that you will put it up on your site for other's
to see. I want everyone to know how i feel, and maybe some of the words that
i have spoken will reach some one, even if it is just one person, then i
have saved a life.
Afm |
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I am writing to say that at 18, the last
thing I wanted was a baby. I was studying nursing and enjoying life. But,
I got pregnant. My boyfriend and I had been going out for 4 months and it
was a rocky relationship at best. I thought I only had one option - get rid
of the baby. My boyfriend was not so sure, but he agreed to go with my
decision. So we travelled 2 1/2 hours to the nearest abortion clinic. I
sat in the car, looking at the building, and cried. I knew then that I
couldnt go through with it. The day before my 19th birthday, I delivered a
healthy, 9lb baby girl. My boyfriend and I moved in together, and four
months later I became pregnant again. Admittedly this wasnt a planned
pregnancy, but abortion didnt even enter my mind. As I speak I have 2
active daughters, 3 and 4 years old, my boyfriend is now my fiance. I am 23
and studying again, and I have to say that life is hard - but totally
fullfilling.. I adore my children and have NEVER regretted my decision to
have them. Thanks for your time.
Liv |
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10/00/01
I am a
Christian mother of two beautiful children. My husband and I were told with
my oldest child, to consider abortion because a doctor had done x-rays and
many other types of test. I was very sick and in the hospital when this
happen. A pregnancy test wasn't done until it was to late. My husband and I
was truly in shock, that a doctor would even act as if that should be
decision. I was brought up in a Christian home, so we didn't even consider
what that doctor said. My beautiful 6 year daughter is truly a gift from
God, she is perfect. Anyway I came across your site doing research for a
medical class I am taking. I am very pro-life, and I believe children are
truly gifts from God. I am doing a presentation on abortion, hoping God will
bless, and maybe it will stop someone from having an abortion.
I have to
say being in the medical field I am use to seeing
many things, but your site has really made me realize how awful abortion
is!!!!!!!
May God
Bless you.
D. Reed |
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10/07/01
My children are 12 and 14 years old. When I was pregnant with them I was
encouraged by some people to have a termination. This advice was given on
the grounds that I was not married. I am
still a single-parent and have to admit that life has been difficult at
times. However contrary to what I was told, having a baby did not bring to
an end my opportunities for happiness or achievement, I now have a degree.
also both my children are well adjusted healthy and happy, yet I was told
that I could not provide a stable environment for
them, well myself and many other lone-parents are proving this theory
wrong. As a Christian I would say that God's plan for raising children is
within
marriage, however a child can be loved, disciplined and valued within a
one-parent household also.
When I think of all the hurtful words which have been spoken into my life,
the ones which I consider to be most cruel and damaging came from those who
encouraged me to destroy the lives which I carried
inside me.
Lucy McWhirter
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9/29/01
I'm 19 years old and
pregnant for the first time. I was told when I was
17 that I couldn't have children. I have a friend who's pregnant at the
age of 18.I don't believe in abortion because I feel that it's still
murder whether you're in your first week or ninth month. The greatest
feeling I have ever felt was when my baby moved for the first time. I was
scared just like everyone else but not as scared as when I was told I
couldn't have children. I don't know that I'm going to be the best parent
on earth, but I'm sure as hell going to try. If someone feels that they
aren't ready to be parents then they shouldn't be having sex. Anyone who
gets pregnant and doesn't want their child at least owes it to that
child to go through with the labour, even if they decide to give it up
for adoption. And there ought to be a law that says once you abort a
child or give one up for adoption that you have to get yourself
fixed. And stop calling an unborn child a fetus, they're babies or
children!
A Proud Mother To Be! |
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9/27/01
I just wanted to share
with you some wonderful news. My son, who I tried to abort 19 1/2 years
ago, called me on the phone on Monday. He was able to call me because
instead of abortion, I ended up having to go full term and placed him for
adoption. After all of these years, I will finally be able to get to know
the young man who I tried to kill. I've been given a second chance.
You see, that is the
beauty of true "choice" when the choice is adoption. Where there is
abortion there is only death and pain. But where there is adoption there
can also be restoration.
I don't think I will
ever tell him how close he came to not seeing the world. Instead I will
cherish getting to know him, hearing him laugh, learning of his dreams and
goals. Some day I may even have the privilege of someone calling me
"granny" because now he is back in my life.
Adoption = life and new
beginnings. Abortion = DEATH.
Sincerely,
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9/26/01
When I was 15, I
found out that I was four months pregnant. Although I never considered
abortion, because I have very strong beliefs against it, I did have several
people including my Grandmother tell me that I should get an abortion. I
wouldn't even consider it. I did however, consider giving my child up for
adoption, but quickly decided to keep the baby. It wasn't easy making that
decision. I was very blessed to have a supportive mother who didn't kick me
out on the street. Nevertheless, it was difficult to raise a child because,
I was a child myself. I had to give up some of the things that teens really
enjoy, like the prom and other fun events. It did take me a few years to
mature, but I thank God that I didn't make the mistake of ending my child's
life. Now, twelve years later, I have a beautiful daughter who is such a
blessing. We are very close, she is very dear to me. When I think about
how I could have chosen the easy way out, it breaks my heart. I would have
never witnessed her first smile, laugh, steps, words, her first day of
kindergarten, or observe her playing with her friends. I get so emotional
when I think about how easy it would have been to go to an abortion clinic
it literally sickens me to think of it. I will be the first to say that it
hasn't been the easiest road to travel. I was a single mom for 6 years, it
wasn't all fun and games, but I am so very glad that I made that choice to
keep my precious girl!
T
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8/15/01 I am 16 years old and just 2 months after my 16th birthday
I found out I was pregnant. Everyone's first thought was "get an abortion"
except for my mother. My mother said she'd do whatever I
 wanted
too. She wanted my baby. She was kind of excited. After telling his father
and him leaving I decided I didn't care. I was bringing this baby into the
world whether he liked it or not. I was scared, yes. I felt alone after his
father left but I knew I could do it! I got my first ultrasound and they
said they thought he had a tumor on his brain. I still didn't care. He
deserved a chance to live. I got my second ultrasound after being told to
get an abortion and telling them no way no how and he was fine. I delivered
a beautiful baby boy October 4th, 2000 at 8:26am and he was 6lbs 9ozs and 18
1/2 inches long. Now he is 10months old and more beautiful then I could have
ever imagined. He is SO smart. He can almost walk. He takes about 10 steps.
Everytime I see him do something or look at me I think about what life would
be like if I did abort him. It would be impossible. It would have drove me
crazy! I am happy to be a teenage mother and I am proud of my self. I am
still in school and working so that my son, Noah Ryan, will never go with
out. I have a wonderful boyfriend who has been with me through my pregnancy
and now considers himself his father. Life couldn't be any better!
Breanan (Ohio) |
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8/15/01 Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of having a
abortion sometime ago (July 4th) the day before I went to your site and seen
what the truth was about what I was going to do. I had called a clinic and
heard most everything your site had told me to
expect. Thanks to you the same day as I was scheduled
for a abortion I went as had a ultrasound done instead and new from the
minute I looked at the screen that your info you provided was correct. The
second I seen the screen I seen something on the screen that was very much
alive and a part of me. I loved this child instantly. I am 24 years old and
have a child of that is 2 years of age already. I am a professional
business women and can see how easy it would have
been to be lured in my what I thought was just a simple and so called
routine procedure. The pictures on your site is
what opened my eyes and there is not enough thanks in the world that could
ever be expressed to whomever put this site together. It is harsh but
sometimes the truth hurts. I can not see how anyone could look at this and
not realize just what there doing. thanks again Calgary Alberta
Jayme |
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8/6/01 I have just been through your site and I can say I am
appalled and hurt and ashamed at our society! I cried and felt sick to my
stomach at times. I am 20 years old, and I have a year and a half old
daughter and I am 17 weeks pregnant with my second! My daughters father, now
"not in the picture", told me to abort her and I would not know what my life
would be without her, because she IS my life!!! The father
of my second was so happy when I told him I was pregnant! His
happiness took away all of my fears away. Not only is he my hero, he is my
daughters "DADDY"! He took on that responsability
without a word of regret or hostility toward me, because she was a part of
me and is now a part of US!
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